Naturally Yin &
“And suddenly, when I start to follow my heart, the whole world is at my feet.”
Over Sensual Glow
“Some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about.
Being a Love, Sex and Relationship Coach feels very priviliged. On a daily basis I get to help women in the most important area’s of their lives: Femininity, & Sexuality.
The one thing that all the Women and Couples that find their way to my practice have in common is that they are willing to do something about the situation that they are in. I am so proud and pleased to have the honor of working with these beautiful beings.
Coaching Practice working Globally
My practice is located in Delft, The Netherlands. My dutch clients like to come my Super special and intimate studio in the heart of pitoresk Delft. A very old small city well known for its Delfts blue pottery, the beautiful canals and century old buildings (the oldest being build in 1503).
More and more customers outside of the Netherland find their way to my practice. My coaching are either in Dutch or in English. I have lived and studied for years in England en studied for years in the USA.
I am highly experienced in Coaching through Zoom or Skype. Although I was hesitant at first I have long conquered my preconceptions about coaching through a digital connection. It can be just as effective.
about 60% of the coaching I do is through Zoom…
Mijn omzet is verdubbeld. Dat is fijn.
Maar wat echt belangrijk is is dat ik mijn succes eindelijk durf te leven. durf te voelen… Ik doe het niet alleen allemaal… ik VOEL het ook nog eens…Bianca, 32 jaar, Food en Fitness
Oooooh Guusje, I just wanted to let you know how I feel today. It is so amazing! It is all true! I feel so empowered and .. so full of sensual energy (as you put it)Rita 39, NYC, personal development Coach
Knowing is not Feeling
I remember some parts of my early childhood vividly. I remember the discovering of the sensations very well. When I close my eyes I can recall the feeling of wholeness & sacredness.
I remember the innocense, the lack of judgement that I put on myself. I remember the joy of tasting, seeing, smelling, touching or hearing new things.
I remember my first sensual experiences, the way my body felt and the way my body made me feel.
I remember my first orgasm. It was spontaneous in my sleep. It woke me up and it felt sensational. It was a true energy orgasm as I would find out years and years later.
As I look back on myself I see a little girl that had a strong connection to her body, no shame and a natural feeling for the sensual.
When I was 16 I went to Spain with my best friend. Four weeks of sun, dancing and fun. We had saved up all year and off we went.
It was amazing. The freedom, the joy, the lack of responsibility, the weather, the music. Just perfect.
Until one night…..
My best friend was very busy with a boy and I found myself alone at the party. One boy was very persistent. As time went by the party reached it end and still my friend was nowhere… I was alone, I felt alone… I wanted to go home.
Home was a tent. And the tent was a 20 minute walk. The boy offered to take me there. I didn’t want him to come. He persisted. He joined me in my walk home. I took detours, I stretched the walk to avoid the coming home.
But coming home was unavoidable and yes…. when we got here I was raped.
I was devastated. I was all alone, far far away form my loving parents and far far away from safety.
In hindsight the effect of this trauma was enormous. I started hiding my body by wearing enormous sweaters, I didn’t want to make eyecontact with boys or men. I got very careful and the innocense was gone.
I took good care of myself, did all the necessary therapies. Luckely the health system in the Netherlands is very very good. I sort of recovered. It got normal.
After some time I even got my first real boyfriend and we had a good sexlife which I enjoyed.
I married and I got 3 lovely children.
Everything turned out pretty well! Everyone, even me, thought I had the perfect life. But……
Almost ten years ago, when my baby daughter was just 5 months old, I met him. He walked into the room, he looked at me, I looked at him and we both knew that we were in big BIG trouble.
At that very moment I felt the pure essence of myself again. The sensual, sexual woman in me was instantly awoken.
I wanted that feeling in my life. Every fiber in my body, every shred of my soul knew that this want my quintessence. This was what made up the entire meaning of things.
No turning back.
But with three young children and in a good marriage this came… unexpected.. to say the least.
Me and the love of my life knew that we would end up together but how we would achieve that we didn’t. I was quite open about the situation with my husband, friends and family but the world didn’t greet that with much joy or enthousiasm. It were though times.
I decided that I wanted to be the person that ….
Now, almost ten years later everything is more than well. Me and my (not so new) Love are married, We each have 3 children that add up to the grand total of 6!, my ex husband is our neighbour.
I have a thriving Coaching business and spectacular lovelife.
I get to design my life and help others do the same. My work is rewarding. Every year I evaluate how my life is going. Every year me and my Love make plans on how to improve our lives.
Whenever you are ready to do the same, let me know. You are so welcome!
I have a thriving Coaching business and spectacular lovelife.
Mentors & Teachers
Fact based & Passion driven.
Deepening the Connection can only be achieved through working with dedicated and focused studying. I have chosen very specific, down to earth, proven methods from both the tantric world as from the science of psychology. After college I was trained in social work and applied psychology. I have always loved studying and I dedicate at least 20% of my time keeping up and discovering new field of expertise.
The Sensual Glow method is so successful and so relevant to people because there are so many giants on which shoulders to stand. Here you find a few I studied with the last recent years.
Psalms vision of Tantrc Sex seamlessly connects to mine. She has been an important inspiration and there is a lot to learn from her in the area of tantirc techniques.
I just LOVE het openness and down to earth way of talking about subjects that usualy remain unpsoken of.
In 2014 I studied with this beautiful woman who unfortunately is no longer among us.
Cloé did groundbreaking work in unraveling the operating principles behind our personal relationships. Without her the relationship discipline would look entirely different.
She has teamed up with Tony Robbins years ago and together with him, Mark & Magali Peysha she founded a large traininginstitute.
Her analytical skills are amazing!
Her analysis methods form the basis of the certification training the I have done.
Mark en Magali Peysha
Mark & Magali Peyshahave worked as relationship coaches all their lives. Now they own their own thriving educational institution where they have trained thousands of coaches. Of which I am (a very proud) one.
One important lesson that I will always carry close at my heart is the way Magali excells at staying rooted in her feminine power during all her teachings. She taught me that you can always be yourself as a coach and still stay focused and goal oriented.
Powerful & Feminine!
The Queen of relationship therapy and coaching! When you aske me what I share most with her, th efirst thing that pops up is her vision about affairs, being in love and extra marrital relationships. There are always lessons to be learnd from the individual choices make in a relationship.
An inquisitive attitude as opposed to a judging one, brings profound insights.
For me, Esther has been a go to expert and teacher for trainings and education for almost ten years.
In the last two years I did the Love, Sex and Relationship coaching certification with Layla Martin.
Famous and infamous for her knwoledge ans wisdom about sex and sexual trauma.
This education is the perfect match for the more formal traing I did earlier on in my career (BA Social work & applied psychology (1996). Cognitive behavioral therapy (2003) & competence-oriented treatment and coaching within therapeutic settings (2004).
Last, but certainly not least, The most influential coach in the world. His methods for becoming and staying succesfull are renowned. Whether it be health, business or Love.
I love Tony because hus methods are goal oriented en really do work. In all of the trainings I did and educations I followed his influence is undeniably huge.
I studied with Tony in 2015 and 2016 and will keep coming back to him.
Although I will not use NLP & hypnose therapy at Sensual Glow I have embraced his broad wisdom and knowledge for numerous topics.
Method of Working
The Sensual Glow method has been development over the course of a lot of years. I will never stop improving it. But the outlines are clear and rock solid. I rely on science for the factual side of the truth. I rely on Passion for the meaning of things.
I work goal oriented.
I think warmth, openness and genuine interest in my clients are very important.
I take great pride in the compliments my client give me about my ability to make quick, to the point, non convention-driven analysis. I prefer an inconvenient truth over a convenient lie anytime.
Making plans is one of my favourite use of time. I know the value of a good plan and enjoy making them.
I have chosing only to work with clients that want actual change and only to develope programs that deliver that change. Every client is different, every problem and very challenge is different. But my approach is always the same. I offer three ways of working with me: a 1 day intensive, a 3 months program and a 6 months program.
3 Months Program
In my 3 months program I mark out three fases: analysis, syntheses and integration.
We have a 2 hour session every two weeks.
We have a one hour session every two weeks
you get assigments, meditations and exercises when needed.
I am available for email support throughout the program.
6 Months Program
My 6 months program is for those who’s challenges are bigger, for those who want more time to integrate them in their lives and for those who want to address them more fundamentally.
1 Day intensive
Sometimes a deep dive and a hyperfocus can be very useful to take on challenge in your life.
My main target audiences are: Women, Couples and Coaches. Please choose your liking below.
Work with me
Working with a Love, Sex and Realtion coach can be very scary. You have to face your most vulnerable sides. You will have to talk about topics that are least talked about.
But you are not alone! We all have fears, trauma and limitations. I am here for you. I am used to working with problems that are sensitive.
If you are in doubt whether working me is a good idea just reach out!
I have made forms that you can use to help you formulate what it is you want to work about.
Or just send me a message.
Privacy is very, VERY important for Sensual Glow. The nature of the topics are almost always sensitive. I value creating safe setting above anything else.
My website does not collect information about you.
I never discuss my clients with anybody.
I do not use cloud based storage for information about my clients.
Information shared with me before you have decided to work with me is not saved unless you do decide to work with me.
Als je een interview wil met mij dan kan dat vaak. Stuur me een bericht waarin staat waar het interview over gaat, waar het gepubliceerd wordt en waar je vraag aan mij over gaat.
Voor de duidelijkheid. Ik geef nooit informatie over mijn klanten en ben alleen geïnteresseerd in interviews met diepgang.
“Als je mij twee jaar geleden had gevraagd wat er mogelijk zou zijn voor mij, zou ik wat ik nu ervaar niet eens kunnen beschrijven. Ik heb een droomrelatie. Ik heb een droomhuis. En mijn droombedrijf.”Naomi - 36 jaar - Spiritualiteit & life Coach