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“And suddenly, when I start to follow my heart, the whole world is at my feet.”
‘Some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about’.
Being a Love, Sex and Relationship Coach feels very privileged to me. On a daily basis I get to help, inspire and serve women, men & couples in the most important area’s of their lives:
Love, Connection, Relationships, Sexuality…..
The one thing that all the beautiful people finding their way to my practice have in common, is that they are willing to show up for their desires and are willing to work on the situation that they are in.
I am so proud and pleased to have the honor of working with these beautiful beings.
Coaching Practice working Globally
My office is located in Delft, The Netherlands. My dutch clients like to come over to my intimate studio in the heart of pitoresk Delft. A very old small city well known for its Delfts blue pottery, beautiful canals and century old buildings (the oldest being build in 1503).
I work globally too and I love that!!! International clients are choosing my European approach to love & relationships, because it weaves science based sexology (the Dutch are famous world wide for their excellent sex education in schools and approach to sexual wellness) & holistic tantric take on spirituality and sex perfectly.
I’m an ‘out of the box thinker’, an explorer and am always on a quest to learn some more. I have lived and studied for years in England and in the USA.
I am highly experienced in Coaching through Zoom or Skype. Although I was hesitant at first I have long conquered my preconceptions about coaching through a digital connection. It turn out it’s just as effective.
My financial success has doubled! I started to use tantric sex magic and alchemy daily. I’ve grown as a coach and feel so much more alive! Your-depht coaching has turned my life around. Forever grateful, woman.
Oooooh Guusje, I feel so empowered and .. so full of sensual energy (as you put it). My relationships are shifting. And therefor… my whole life is shifting! I feel worthy of love, succes and money for the first time ever!
Mentors & Teachers
Fact based & Passion driven.
Personal development can only be achieved through working with dedicated and focused studying. I have chosen very specific, down to earth, proven methods from both the tantric world as from the science of psychology. After college, where I got my degree in social work and applied psychology, I continued to develop. I have always loved studying and I dedicate at least 20% of my time keeping up and discovering new field of expertise.
Here you find some influencers, I studied with in the past years.
Psalms vision of Tantrc Sex seamlessly connects to mine. She has been an important inspiration and there is a lot to learn from her in the area of tantirc techniques.
I just LOVE het openness and down to earth way of talking about subjects that usualy remain unpsoken of.
In 2014 I studied with this beautiful woman who unfortunately is no longer among us.
Cloé did groundbreaking work in unraveling the operating principles behind our personal relationships. Without her the relationship discipline would look entirely different.
She has teamed up with Tony Robbins years ago and together with him, Mark & Magali Peysha she founded a large training institute.
Her analytical skills are amazing!
Her analysis methods form the basis of the certification training the I have done.
Mark en Magali Peysha
Mark & Magali Peysha have worked as relationship coaches all their lives. Now they own their own thriving educational institution where they have trained thousands of coaches. Of which I am (a very proud) one.
One important lesson that I will always carry close at my heart is the way Magali excells at staying rooted in her feminine power during all her teachings. She taught me that you can always be yourself as a coach and still stay focused and goal oriented.
Powerful & Feminine!
The Queen of relationship therapy and coaching! When you ask me what I share most with her, the first thing that pops up is her vision about affairs, being in love and extra marital relationships.
An inquisitive attitude as opposed to a judging one, brings profound insights.
Esther Perel's vision and mission is a huge inspiration to me.
I studied the Love, Sex and Relationship coaching certification with Layla Martin.
Famous for her knowledge and wisdom about healing sexual trauma.
This education is the perfect addition with the more formal training I had earlier in my career (BA Social work & applied psychology (1996). Cognitive behavioral therapy (2003) & competence-oriented treatment and coaching within therapeutic settings (2004). And recent Post degree Sexology training.
Last, but certainly not least, The most influential coach in the world. His methods for becoming and staying succesfull are renowned. Whether it be health, business or Love.
I love Tony because his methods are goal oriented en really do work. In all of the trainings I did and educations I followed his influence is undeniably huge.
I studied with Tony in 2015 and 2016 and will keep coming back to him.
Method of Working
The Sensual Glow method has been developed over the course of many years. I will never stop improving it. But the outlines are clear and rock solid. I rely on science for the factual side of the truth. I rely on Passion for the meaning of things.
I work goal oriented.
I think warmth, openness and genuine interest in my clients are very important.
I take great pride in the compliments my client give me about my ability to make quick, to the point, non convention-driven analysis. I prefer an inconvenient truth over a convenient lie anytime.
Making plans is one of my favourite use of time. I know the value of a good plan and enjoy making them.
I have chosing only to work with clients that want actual change and only to develope programs that deliver that change. Every client is different, every problem and very challenge is different. But my approach is always the same. I offer three ways of working with me: a 1 day intensive, a 3 months program and a 6 months program.
3 Months Program
In my 3 months program I mark out three fases: analysis, syntheses and integration.
We have a 2 hour session every two weeks.
We have a one hour session every two weeks
you get assigments, meditations and exercises when needed.
I am available for email support throughout the program.
6 Months Program
My 6 months program is for those who’s challenges are bigger, for those who want more time to integrate them in their lives and for those who want to address them more fundamentally.
1 Day intensive
Sometimes a deep dive and a hyperfocus can be very useful to take on challenge in your life.
My main target audiences are: Women, Couples and Coaches. Please choose your liking below.
Work with me
Working with a Love, Sex and Realtion coach can be very scary. You have to face your most vulnerable sides. You will have to talk about topics that are least talked about.
But you are not alone! We all have fears, trauma and limitations. I am here for you. I am used to working with problems that are sensitive.
If you are in doubt whether working me is a good idea just reach out!
I have made forms that you can use to help you formulate what it is you want to work about.
Or just send me a message.
Privacy is very, VERY important for Sensual Glow. The nature of the topics are almost always sensitive. I value creating safe setting above anything else.
My website does not collect information about you.
I never discuss my clients with anybody.
I do not use cloud based storage for information about my clients.
Information shared with me before you have decided to work with me is not saved unless you do decide to work with me.
I’m always open to be a guest in your magazine, podcast, vlog or blog! Shoot me a message and we are connected!
“Als je mij twee jaar geleden had gevraagd wat er mogelijk zou zijn voor mij, zou ik wat ik nu ervaar niet eens kunnen beschrijven. Ik heb een droomrelatie. Ik heb een droomhuis. En mijn droombedrijf.”